The Problem of ... Comparison

Comparison - Dictionary says its "The quality of being similar or equivalent."

Well there is No Problem In Comparing, as in there is no problem when we try to see... If the Quality in STUFF A is Equivalent to the STUFF B ... the Problem Exists wen we Know that STUFF A is not as STUFF B and we try to Force STUFF B to be Like STUFF A.

As a Kid I alsways remember being compared to my Sis .. Friends ... Cats .. Dogs .. Mice .. ABC .. XYZ ... Just EVERYTHING and EVERYONE... I used to think then ... by god .. Is there any creature that I havent been compared to ??? ... hmmm... Not Really ... I thought this is just the case with me... But no... Every individual goes through this Phase ... (I mean if u dont have a sibling you can always be compared to cats dogs ... hehe) .. Well all said and done... it does not end with your parents .... Then there is your Teacher.. Boss .. Boyfriend .. Girlfriend .. Husband ..Wife.. Kids ..

Practically, each individual is different in his/her own individual way ... That's what makes them special .. and hey.. that's what adds Life to Life!!!! Imagine a person just like you ... he talks the way you do .. has same Ideas ... reacts the same way .... Initially you'll find it cool... but then ... it's OUGHT to be MONOTONOUS


कहेत संत नेहा ... जियो और जीने दो... Each one of us has got our own way of doing stuff .. We like different things and we think Differently ... thats the way its Got to be !! .. Just because Mickey is extrovert... Goffey Need not be..... (Guess you got the Point ..)

Hey !!! Let People Be the Way they are ... World is Much better when there are different Colours in it ...What say???

Cheers!!
Neha

2 comments:

Tanvi said...

Now this is one good straight-to-the-point view

Sid's said...

Hello, budhu ram, nobody compares you to dogs/cats etc, when someone is comparing try to figure out the intention behind their comparision, they are saying with reference to context as in that particular feature is better in that person, or that person under a specific condition behave better then you did ..........types, samjha...........but also realize...there r other people out there who are giving u example to the people around them

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Thanks for your comment!!!! appreciate ur view

--Cheers
Neha